MARRIAGE WITHOUT TEARS

. “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you . She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten y

I Feel Like My Anger Is Ruining My Marriage, How Can I Stop This? It's an awful feeling when you know that you are watching your marriage deteriorating before your very eyes. It's a much worse feeling when you know that this deterioration is potentially all your fault. And that can be especially bad if you're dealing with something you feel you should learn to control - like your anger. Someone might explain: "I am fully aware that my anger is destroying my marriage. And what's so awful is that I was not always this way. I used to be happy-go-lucky and laid back. It used to take quite a bit to get me angry. That is not the case anymore. I have two children under the age of three. I feel pulled in many different directions. I feel incredibly overwhelmed. And I suppose because of this, I find myself snapping at just about everyone. My kids. My husband. My mom. Sometimes, my anger seems to come out of nowhere but then once it appears, I can't seem t